Ok. So my first day was wednesday. I entered with Confidence and a smile... The morning went really well. Then I did 11:30-12:30 by myself and the shit hit the fan.
Anything that could go wrong, did go wrong. I think I handled it pretty good though. I tried my best to be light hearted and smile. But it sure elevated my blood pressure... the afternoon was L o n g, and due to a moronic courier, I was 20 minutes late leaving: so the end of my day was overwhelming and frustrating. I had to call Lair and have him pick up Quinn from the dayhome because I was running so late.
When I got home, 15 minutes before we were supposed to leave for swimming lessons, Quinn said a few times "Why didn't you pick me up, you said you would pick me up" (repeat...) this broke my heart.
Lawrence was being awesome and making a nice dinner - but he forgot about Swimming lessons.... so he was up to his elbows in Fajitas and we had to go.... But we have to eat first. So we rushed the meal, tried to eat it and by 6pm I told Quinn he would miss lessons tonight because we were running so far behind. He started to cry....
I went to the bathroom and just l o s t it. Ugly cry/sobbing... My brain just snapped. When I finally got myself under control and back to the table, Lair decided to try to get some pool time in and whisked Quinn off; they managed to catch the last 15 minutes of his lesson.
When they got home, Lair headed off to the gym. Quinn had his bath and then he and I went to bed at 8:30...
Day One Over......
DAY TWO - Due-over day. Again, I entered with Confidence and a smile... Day two was much much better! Learned and absorbed more.
DAY THREE (Friday) - Another great day... I think I will be just fine and will quite enjoy this position.
I do look forward to after Thanksgiving as that is when I will be on my own. (The young gal training me is starting to drive me crazy!)....
So what have we learned? Wednesdays will be a crazy rushed day after work so we need to plan/prepare a super quick meal to eat and run.
This company has a great RRSP contribution matching plan, there is a small gym on the second floor, a massage therapist comes in every thursday - it's not free, but probably discounted? Seems like pretty cool place to work.
Oh and in my last post I said it was a 10 story building..... um... I was wrong! LOL, it's only 3 (Big) stories... funny how your perception can be so wrong!
I can't wait for payday...
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Life is changing at the speed of light!
Wow. Where do we begin.
Well, in early September, I made a decision to relax and not stress about life/work/school until October.
Well, last week, I got a phone call from a company called AMEC. Their HR gal saw my resume on monster.ca - it's a little outdated, and the funny thing is, my 'current title' shows as "Super-mom Extraordinaire" LOL...
We arranged for my interview on monday (earlier this week). I had printed a map and it showed the office being in Riverbend. There are lots of businesses that way so I didn't question it; until I was deep in the residential area wondering where the heck Google-map wanted me to go.
I was Lost.... so very lost! I needed to find a phone to call Lair... I don't have a cell phone! Panic was setting in. Then I spotted a guy smoking on his back deck. I pulled up and asked if I could use his phone. He brought a cordless out to me... Lair wasn't home. My map was wrong. No clue where to go.... The number on my printout was a fax #.... ug! Then the guy said his wife could pull a map for me off the computer. I gave him the info and he went inside. He came out and said I could come in. I felt weird doing so, but didn't have a bad feeling.
I enter the house to find Grandma, 2 boys and his wife. They just moved here from the East Coast. She hoped on the computer. They have Dial up.... o.m.g., it was so painfully slow. And she was painfully slow on the computer. I asked her if she would mind if I hoped on to get the info I needed.
So I went to the AMEC website, got their # and called for directions. I wasn't too far off, about 3 minutes away.
This was a very nice Random act of kindness for this family to let me use their phone and computer. I was there for about 10 minutes because the cpt was so slow!
When I arrived there, the receptionist laughed and said 'you used google map didn't you' - apparently this business complex is so new it doesn't appear yet and for some reason maps to Riverbend. Man, I wish Someone told me that when they arranged the interview!
So, Big (10 stories?) building, all AMEC: Earth & Environmental (Engineering firm). It's for Office Administrator/Reception. They currently have two 20 year old girls running the show (a daughter of an employee and the daughters friend). It's a shit-show filled with drama and absenteeism. So they are looking for a professional, mature replacement. INSERT MELANIE.
I had a great, relaxed interview, it lasted a little over an hour. Other than the learning curve of industry, operations/procedures, VOIP phone system, departments, divisions, 300+ people ect, This position sounds pretty easy. Though she stressed how important it is that the person in this roll always be on time and at the desk... I dislike very much being 'chained' to the desk. I haven't been committed to a desk since the year 2000! Oh well - they didn't pay me THIS much when I was chained to a desk LOL Speaking of which, she asked me what my salary expectations were. She said it was significantly hirer than they were thinking. I told her she wouldn't be disappointed with my performance and that I was well worth my salary quote. She said they are all about bettering their staff to benefit the company and in time, if there are courses I want to take they will help with them. She said they are totally about hiring from within and for me to consider this position getting my foot in the door! HOW AWESOME IS THAT?! They also have an allowance for Health & Fitness - I believe my GYM membership will be mostly, if not all, paid for!
This office is about 10 km from home (10-15 minutes in rush hour!) wOOt! And if needed (if we are have car troubles), the new 'BRT' bus rapid transit system goes from Copperfield to the doorstep of the business complex (I was sure to mention this) as well, lair & I might be able to car pool (again, I mentioned this).
So after my interview she told me 'we have interviews all week, if you don't hear from us by friday give us a call because we are really busy'.
Interviews all week... sigh. I believe I was Interviewee #2 or #3... I was a bit worried after a week of interviews she would forget who I was....
She called me at 5pm friday night to ask me to join the AMEC team. WOO-HOO!!!! She said all week she was comparing the interviewee's to me - so I guess I put the bar up pretty high!
For salary, she asked if my bottom line would be acceptable, suggesting of course there will be raises in the near future. So Yes!!! H/R will call me early next week to make arrangements. I can start as early as Wednesday for training 3 times a week for the next 2 weeks, and will begin my official full time job after thanksgiving.
I will hand in my resignation on monday (I've been working 15 hr/ week as a personal assistant for a financial advisor). Unfortunately, he is out of town until tuesday... He is going to be pissed. I know he really likes me and he is always super impressed with everything I do for him. I will be hard to replace.
I can not begin to tell you how thankful I am for this opportunity. I've been praying that I find a great job that will be good for me personally and for the family financially. We've really been feeling the financial crunch - starting to do the back slide; just not good, and when we're not good in the money department, the stress is agonizing for both Lawrence and I. I am happy and excited, but of course, I am sad too as I will miss Quinn SO MUCH. He will only need childcare 3 times a week as Lair is home Mon-Tue, so that alleviates some stress.
It's funny how things come to you when you least expect it. I job hunted ALL summer, but was looking for part-time hours, and there was nothing out there worth my while. So at the end of August I decided to enjoy my september before going hard at a full-time job search, which would be very stressful.
So here I sit. No stress. THANK YOU UNIVERSE! I will not disappoint.
So that's what's up with me. Now, Lawrence. I think I mentioned he has been officially accepted to DeVry as a Mature student to their business program. However, after much foot work and many phone calls, he has decided to officially upgrade without taking any short cuts. So no DeVry (which makes me happy as I was very uncomfortable with them! My gut said NO).
Lawrence went to Chinook college to see what he needs to get his G.E.D. Not too much! He is missing 24 credits to graduate. With 'Life Experience', they automatically give him 15. She asked if he's travelled. Yes. He needs to write a 500 word essay on how traveling has improved his life. 5 Credits! She asked, Do you read? Yes! He needs to write a 500 word essay on how traveling has improved his life. 5 Credits! DONE, High School Graduate! Simple!
Lair has chosen to apply for the Bachelor of Applied International Business & Supply Chain Management at Mount Royal (now a University), however, it does have mandatory pre-requisites (Math 30 and English 30), both of which he does not have.
So, again talking to Chinook college, they can help him get his Math 10/20/30 and English 10.
He plans to take an English 'refresher' course in Nov/Dec, then Challenge the English 30 Final in January.
For Math, our dear friend Dr. Dwayne Dickie (PhD.) has offered to tutor Lair with Math gr.9/10/20/30. After a few months of intense learning, he will either Challenge the Math 30 exam, or take the math 30 class.
The ultimate goal here is to have all this upgrading done in time to apply for Sept. 2010 classes.
Now that I have landed myself a great job, hopefully I can be his sugar momma while he focuses on school. Our ultimate goal is once he starts at Mount Royal that he attend as a full time student. He will probably still need a part-time job to get us by, but at least he can seriously get down and study.
So there you have it. The Ashmeads are going at Warp speed - not sure where we will end up, but we know we are going in the right direction!
Wow, I just typed a lot.... I haven't re-read it, so I hope it all makes sense.
Well, in early September, I made a decision to relax and not stress about life/work/school until October.
Well, last week, I got a phone call from a company called AMEC. Their HR gal saw my resume on monster.ca - it's a little outdated, and the funny thing is, my 'current title' shows as "Super-mom Extraordinaire" LOL...
We arranged for my interview on monday (earlier this week). I had printed a map and it showed the office being in Riverbend. There are lots of businesses that way so I didn't question it; until I was deep in the residential area wondering where the heck Google-map wanted me to go.
I was Lost.... so very lost! I needed to find a phone to call Lair... I don't have a cell phone! Panic was setting in. Then I spotted a guy smoking on his back deck. I pulled up and asked if I could use his phone. He brought a cordless out to me... Lair wasn't home. My map was wrong. No clue where to go.... The number on my printout was a fax #.... ug! Then the guy said his wife could pull a map for me off the computer. I gave him the info and he went inside. He came out and said I could come in. I felt weird doing so, but didn't have a bad feeling.
I enter the house to find Grandma, 2 boys and his wife. They just moved here from the East Coast. She hoped on the computer. They have Dial up.... o.m.g., it was so painfully slow. And she was painfully slow on the computer. I asked her if she would mind if I hoped on to get the info I needed.
So I went to the AMEC website, got their # and called for directions. I wasn't too far off, about 3 minutes away.
This was a very nice Random act of kindness for this family to let me use their phone and computer. I was there for about 10 minutes because the cpt was so slow!
When I arrived there, the receptionist laughed and said 'you used google map didn't you' - apparently this business complex is so new it doesn't appear yet and for some reason maps to Riverbend. Man, I wish Someone told me that when they arranged the interview!
So, Big (10 stories?) building, all AMEC: Earth & Environmental (Engineering firm). It's for Office Administrator/Reception. They currently have two 20 year old girls running the show (a daughter of an employee and the daughters friend). It's a shit-show filled with drama and absenteeism. So they are looking for a professional, mature replacement. INSERT MELANIE.
I had a great, relaxed interview, it lasted a little over an hour. Other than the learning curve of industry, operations/procedures, VOIP phone system, departments, divisions, 300+ people ect, This position sounds pretty easy. Though she stressed how important it is that the person in this roll always be on time and at the desk... I dislike very much being 'chained' to the desk. I haven't been committed to a desk since the year 2000! Oh well - they didn't pay me THIS much when I was chained to a desk LOL Speaking of which, she asked me what my salary expectations were. She said it was significantly hirer than they were thinking. I told her she wouldn't be disappointed with my performance and that I was well worth my salary quote. She said they are all about bettering their staff to benefit the company and in time, if there are courses I want to take they will help with them. She said they are totally about hiring from within and for me to consider this position getting my foot in the door! HOW AWESOME IS THAT?! They also have an allowance for Health & Fitness - I believe my GYM membership will be mostly, if not all, paid for!
This office is about 10 km from home (10-15 minutes in rush hour!) wOOt! And if needed (if we are have car troubles), the new 'BRT' bus rapid transit system goes from Copperfield to the doorstep of the business complex (I was sure to mention this) as well, lair & I might be able to car pool (again, I mentioned this).
So after my interview she told me 'we have interviews all week, if you don't hear from us by friday give us a call because we are really busy'.
Interviews all week... sigh. I believe I was Interviewee #2 or #3... I was a bit worried after a week of interviews she would forget who I was....
She called me at 5pm friday night to ask me to join the AMEC team. WOO-HOO!!!! She said all week she was comparing the interviewee's to me - so I guess I put the bar up pretty high!
For salary, she asked if my bottom line would be acceptable, suggesting of course there will be raises in the near future. So Yes!!! H/R will call me early next week to make arrangements. I can start as early as Wednesday for training 3 times a week for the next 2 weeks, and will begin my official full time job after thanksgiving.
I will hand in my resignation on monday (I've been working 15 hr/ week as a personal assistant for a financial advisor). Unfortunately, he is out of town until tuesday... He is going to be pissed. I know he really likes me and he is always super impressed with everything I do for him. I will be hard to replace.
I can not begin to tell you how thankful I am for this opportunity. I've been praying that I find a great job that will be good for me personally and for the family financially. We've really been feeling the financial crunch - starting to do the back slide; just not good, and when we're not good in the money department, the stress is agonizing for both Lawrence and I. I am happy and excited, but of course, I am sad too as I will miss Quinn SO MUCH. He will only need childcare 3 times a week as Lair is home Mon-Tue, so that alleviates some stress.
It's funny how things come to you when you least expect it. I job hunted ALL summer, but was looking for part-time hours, and there was nothing out there worth my while. So at the end of August I decided to enjoy my september before going hard at a full-time job search, which would be very stressful.
So here I sit. No stress. THANK YOU UNIVERSE! I will not disappoint.
So that's what's up with me. Now, Lawrence. I think I mentioned he has been officially accepted to DeVry as a Mature student to their business program. However, after much foot work and many phone calls, he has decided to officially upgrade without taking any short cuts. So no DeVry (which makes me happy as I was very uncomfortable with them! My gut said NO).
Lawrence went to Chinook college to see what he needs to get his G.E.D. Not too much! He is missing 24 credits to graduate. With 'Life Experience', they automatically give him 15. She asked if he's travelled. Yes. He needs to write a 500 word essay on how traveling has improved his life. 5 Credits! She asked, Do you read? Yes! He needs to write a 500 word essay on how traveling has improved his life. 5 Credits! DONE, High School Graduate! Simple!
Lair has chosen to apply for the Bachelor of Applied International Business & Supply Chain Management at Mount Royal (now a University), however, it does have mandatory pre-requisites (Math 30 and English 30), both of which he does not have.
So, again talking to Chinook college, they can help him get his Math 10/20/30 and English 10.
He plans to take an English 'refresher' course in Nov/Dec, then Challenge the English 30 Final in January.
For Math, our dear friend Dr. Dwayne Dickie (PhD.) has offered to tutor Lair with Math gr.9/10/20/30. After a few months of intense learning, he will either Challenge the Math 30 exam, or take the math 30 class.
The ultimate goal here is to have all this upgrading done in time to apply for Sept. 2010 classes.
Now that I have landed myself a great job, hopefully I can be his sugar momma while he focuses on school. Our ultimate goal is once he starts at Mount Royal that he attend as a full time student. He will probably still need a part-time job to get us by, but at least he can seriously get down and study.
So there you have it. The Ashmeads are going at Warp speed - not sure where we will end up, but we know we are going in the right direction!
Wow, I just typed a lot.... I haven't re-read it, so I hope it all makes sense.
Friday, September 18, 2009
Swimming Lessons!
Ever since Mexico, Quinn (then 2 years old), took like a fish to water.
He has no fear and Loves to swim in water wings.
One issue he has is swallowing/choking/sputtering on water at the pool. So we decided it was time for (un-parented) swimming lessons!
He goes on Mon & Wed and so far just loves it. He has 3 class mates (so 4 in total) and 1 teacher. They wear life vests and have nothing but fun.
The first session was a little hard to take in, I was weepy a bit (Lawrence just laughed at me).... but my baby... my dear, not so wee baby..... How he has grown!!!
He has no fear and Loves to swim in water wings.
One issue he has is swallowing/choking/sputtering on water at the pool. So we decided it was time for (un-parented) swimming lessons!
He goes on Mon & Wed and so far just loves it. He has 3 class mates (so 4 in total) and 1 teacher. They wear life vests and have nothing but fun.
The first session was a little hard to take in, I was weepy a bit (Lawrence just laughed at me).... but my baby... my dear, not so wee baby..... How he has grown!!!
Thank you Monster.ca!
I got a random call yesterday from someone who saw my resume on Monster.
It's for full time senior receptionist/Office Administrator at an engineering firm, Earth & Environmental division. The office is located in the foothills industrial park - maybe a 15-20 minutes drive in rush hour.
Interview is scheduled for Monday at 2:30!
I don't know that I am ready to go back to work full time, but the financial pinch is starting to take our breath away. I know once I get back into the swing of things, it will be a breath of fresh air so I will embrace this opportunity. Especially since THEY called me!
With Lairs schedule, Quinn will only need childcare 3 times a week. So I will be home with Quinn on Sat/Sun, he'll be with Lair Mon/Tue, and the dayhome W-Th-F. Plus he has preschool M-W-F afternoons.
So thank you Universe - I am grateful for this opportunity. Now that you've made it present, I will nurture the situation and hopefully mold it to my needs!
It's for full time senior receptionist/Office Administrator at an engineering firm, Earth & Environmental division. The office is located in the foothills industrial park - maybe a 15-20 minutes drive in rush hour.
Interview is scheduled for Monday at 2:30!
I don't know that I am ready to go back to work full time, but the financial pinch is starting to take our breath away. I know once I get back into the swing of things, it will be a breath of fresh air so I will embrace this opportunity. Especially since THEY called me!
With Lairs schedule, Quinn will only need childcare 3 times a week. So I will be home with Quinn on Sat/Sun, he'll be with Lair Mon/Tue, and the dayhome W-Th-F. Plus he has preschool M-W-F afternoons.
So thank you Universe - I am grateful for this opportunity. Now that you've made it present, I will nurture the situation and hopefully mold it to my needs!
I turned 30 again!
So my birthday was last friday. I turned 35. Which is fine, but I think of it as turning 30 'again', though realistically, I still feel 26!
It was a great day. When leaving the liquor store, Lairs cell phone kept ringing but no one was there. Then low and behold... SCOTT-DEE_KAREN-STEVE_JAMES-CHRISTY were on the line - calling from Spain! WOO-HOO! That Really made my day!!!!!!
Marianne and Ben came to town in the afternoon.
Lair & I went to Bolero for the Brazilian fire grill all you can eat meat served on a sword. FRICKEN AWESOME!
Saturday I hung out with Marianne, then she took Quinn to moms for a sleepover. We had a fun house party that night. A great visit with a great bunch of Chosen family. A surprise visit from Alex & Heather topped off the night like a cherry. And it was an all-nighter LOL Good times.
We slept the day away on sunday, enjoying the silence of Quinn not waking us up at 7:30am.
Mom & Giuseppe dropped Quinn off around 6:30pm. We had a nice visit then they left and we had a family snuggle and watched a movie. A great way to end my birthday weekend.
It was a great day. When leaving the liquor store, Lairs cell phone kept ringing but no one was there. Then low and behold... SCOTT-DEE_KAREN-STEVE_JAMES-CHRISTY were on the line - calling from Spain! WOO-HOO! That Really made my day!!!!!!
Marianne and Ben came to town in the afternoon.
Lair & I went to Bolero for the Brazilian fire grill all you can eat meat served on a sword. FRICKEN AWESOME!
Saturday I hung out with Marianne, then she took Quinn to moms for a sleepover. We had a fun house party that night. A great visit with a great bunch of Chosen family. A surprise visit from Alex & Heather topped off the night like a cherry. And it was an all-nighter LOL Good times.
We slept the day away on sunday, enjoying the silence of Quinn not waking us up at 7:30am.
Mom & Giuseppe dropped Quinn off around 6:30pm. We had a nice visit then they left and we had a family snuggle and watched a movie. A great way to end my birthday weekend.
School
Lair has done lots of footwork with Devry - in fact, he's officially been accepted as a mature student, though during this process he's second guessing the choice of school and looking at his options with Mount Royal and not short cutting his upgrading. I am very proud of him.
Looks like he will get his G.E.D. via 'life experience' so that's an easy win for him. However, he needs to upgrade his English and Math.
He is going to cram and take an English refresher course and Challenge the English 30 Exam. We are confident he will easily attain the 60% minimum required for post secondary studies.
Math on the other hand. He more or less needs to take Math 10/20/30. Yikes, this may take some time! Thank heavens for Dwayne! He has offered to tutor Lawrence. He believes with some major dedication, he can bring Lair up to speed to challenge the Math 30 exam as well.
So we are very excited to see how the next year pans out.
In a perfect world, Lair will starts some classes at Mount Royal in Sept 2010. But it may be as late as 2011.
I don't think I will be going back to school quite yet. I have no real desire. So, if I can land a well paying job that I am happy at, I will keep on going and maybe revisit the idea of school in another 5 years?
Looks like he will get his G.E.D. via 'life experience' so that's an easy win for him. However, he needs to upgrade his English and Math.
He is going to cram and take an English refresher course and Challenge the English 30 Exam. We are confident he will easily attain the 60% minimum required for post secondary studies.
Math on the other hand. He more or less needs to take Math 10/20/30. Yikes, this may take some time! Thank heavens for Dwayne! He has offered to tutor Lawrence. He believes with some major dedication, he can bring Lair up to speed to challenge the Math 30 exam as well.
So we are very excited to see how the next year pans out.
In a perfect world, Lair will starts some classes at Mount Royal in Sept 2010. But it may be as late as 2011.
I don't think I will be going back to school quite yet. I have no real desire. So, if I can land a well paying job that I am happy at, I will keep on going and maybe revisit the idea of school in another 5 years?
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